Summer Is Ending, But The Summer Feeling Doesn’t Have To

Beauty, Home, Lifestyle, Style

It’s officially August, which means that summer is sizzling to its end. For some people, that means heading back to school. For others, it means ending their vacations, or it possibly means sending their kids back to school. For me, it means returning to school as an educator.

Like everyone else with a career, my summers aren’t spent free of work. I’ve spent a lot of time working on licensure and professional development opportunities. Regardless of my work this summer, these next couple months usher me into a period of constant work, as I prepare and begin this coming school year. One thing that I’ve learned from being a teacher is that it can be really hard to balance your time (I have no clue how so many of my coworkers and friends with kids handle it). And I know, that as true as this is for me, it is also true for others, especially as we leave the summer and it’s time of adventuring and relaxation.

Through my time as a teacher, I’ve learned to deeply value intentional “me” time, as well as surrounding myself with things that help me relax or bring about intentional relaxing practices. If I’m honest, often when I’m busy and stressed, I’m not in the mindset to find something that will help me relax. Or sometimes my husband sees that I’m stressed and wants to help me relax. Because of this, I’ve developed an Amazon wishlist. It’s an easy go-to, and I’m not the only one who thinks having a wishlist on hand is a good idea.

Today, I’m going to share a few items off my wishlist that I think you might enjoy, that might help you relax as well.

1. Meaningful Artwork

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My sister made this cute little pot for me and it’s just the best thing! Sorry, there’s no link for this one! But I truly believe that art (and in this case pottery) can bring people so much joy. I love looking at and it’s lovely aesthetics. Blues are my favorite, and this one means even more because my sister made it.

2. Ban.do Work It Out Water Bottle

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I know I struggle to stay hydrated once I start working if I don’t actively carry a water bottle around with me. Real story: I had a few students last year who used to scold me for not drinking enough fluids. So I’m working on it, and the inspirational words will help me move forward in my goals (both about hydration and otherwise).

3. Cravings: Hungry For More, By Chrissy Tiegen

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So Chrissy’s latest cookbook isn’t out yet, and it won’t be until September, but I have this on my preorder list because I know it’s going to be great. I already love cooking all of the recipes from her first book, and I’m not the only one who loves them! All my friends and family, who I cook for, love them too. Chrissy is the person who taught me to enjoy cooking, to not let it stress me out, and instead take my time and find pleasure in the process. That reason alone has made me a lifetime supporter of her cookbooks.

4. Farmacy Natural Facemasks

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If you don’t know my love of skincare, then obviously you don’t know me and haven’t read much of my writing. Seriously, I’ve already blogged about how  important skincare is to me multiple times. But, I’m really eager to try this collection Farmacy facemasks. I love Farmacy as a brand. They use natural, clean ingredients, which is important to me. I also love that this selection includes soothing, brightening, and deep moisture (all things my skin will definitely need during the school year).

5. Be You Boxed Calendar

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I’ve always loved quotes, and I have always felt inspired by other people’s words. A calendar like this would is a great addition to a work desk, something to find words of wisdom in every day.

6. IGK Rich Kid Coconut Oil Gel

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I’m really bad about regularly styling my hair on a regular basis once I start my regular 7:30 to 3:30 hours. I got this hair product as a sample, and I instantly loved it. I have naturally wavy to curly hair patterns, and a great product like this can make the biggest difference when it comes to getting the most out of every minute in my morning.

 

So that’s it! If you want to check out my list, you can see the rest of it here. I hope that as your summer comes to an end, you find ways to milk every ounce of adventure and relaxation out of it, and even more, I hope that you can find a way to extend the spirit of summer throughout the rest of 2018!

 

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3 Skincare Products To Help You Relax At The Start Of The School Year

Beauty, Lifestyle

I have written previously about how skincare has become a form of self care for me. Well today’s post is dedicated to even more self care items.

This week marked my first regular work week of the school year. My students come next week. I’m so excited for the start of the school year and also for the start of my second full year of teaching. I love the new school I’m at. The entire school is full of absolute gems of staff members, but I especially love my English department. I’m pretty sure it is full of angels.

Nevertheless, the beginning of the school year also marks a time of exhaustion and stress for teachers and students alike. A lot is starting up again, but it’s important for us all to take time for ourselves. These are things that will help me relax, and they might help you too, but if they don’t reflect on what helps you relax!

1. Stress Relief Lotion $13

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I love this lotion. I’ve been using it for years, and I’ll be keeping it by my desk at work. I love skin care so putting on lotion is already fun for me, but this is also eucalyptus and spearmint scented. Wow, what a nice, relaxing scent. It’s a great, tiny break from your otherwise busy day.

2. Pumpkin Sleeping Pack $20

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You know how you feel on December 31st? That weird mix of anticipation and melancholy? That’s how I feel at the start of a school year. But not this year. This year I decided I’m leaning into fall hard. I’m so excited for falling leaves, pumpkins, hay rack rides, and everything else. I also know that my skin is already showing the wear of early mornings, long days, and late nights so it’s going to need some TLC. I love that this mask will perk up my skin while I sleep and help me embrace the upcoming change in seasons.

3. Foot Cream (and Exfoliation) $27

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Massages of any kind help me relax, and I bet they help you too. Massages are even better if you have someone else who can help you with them, but even if you don’t, you can massage your own feet! It’ll release so much tension! Plus, with this set you can exfoliate your feet after you’re done loosening up those ankles.

 

Ok, so those are my relaxation skincare products! How do you relax? Do you have any go-to relaxation products? Let me know!

 

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7 Vintage Etsy Finds For Back-To-School Season

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I’m one of those annoying people who fully throws herself into every task she is handed. My parents hated it when I was younger because it would take me ten times longer to complete a task. My husband kindly calls this characteristic “passion.” No matter what you call it, I definitely went all-in with wedding planning, as was expected given my personality.

Eric was truly terrified that I wouldn’t know what to do with myself when the wedding was over, but honestly I don’t miss it that much. It was just one day out of my life, and I like the rest of my life too. In fact, I was happily surprised with how much time I had to throw back into all my other passions as we settled into married life (OK, I know it hasn’t been that long and we’re still settling, hence my varied posting here). Instead of picking cake table decor, I can devout myself to writing ten thousand words a day, or something of the like.

As I get ready to go back to school, I’ve decided to try my hardest to convince Eric that, just like students, teachers too must go back-to-school shopping. In the process of moving, Eric and I both decided to get rid of a lot of clothes we don’t where anymore. We’re still thinning things out, but it’s a good habit. And over the last four to five years, I’ve gained an interest in fashion. In the last year, I have turned that interest to sustainable fashion.

There’s a lot of different ways to go about sustainable fashion, but essentially you’re committing yourself and your closet to a more eco and people friendly life in terms of your clothing. One simple way to do this is to buy clothes that are used. Thrifting is nothing new, and it has even gone through a resurgence of popularity in recent years. And lucky for me, I already dig vintage style.

So for your back-to-school shopping pleasure, today I have compiled a list of 7 Etsy Vintage Finds for your “new” back-to-school wardrobe!

1. Denim Midi Dress, brownbagvintage, $36

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Denim always feels like back-to-school must for me in the fall. And also don’t get me started on the comfort level with dresses. I also love this dress because no matter how silly your school’s dress codes are, this dress will easily make the cut. And it’s definitely professional enough for the teachers out there too!

2. Novelty Sweater, Raxclothing, $25

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If you ask me, there’s never a wrong time to invest in a sweater. I’d live in them year-round if I could (and I pretty much do). I like wearing comfy clothes to school, and when you can get something that is BOTH comfy and cute, you jump on it. Like this sweatshirt. People it’s on sale right now. Jump on it.

3. Oversized Denim Jacket, ShopExile, $59

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Denim is good. It will always be good. Oversized is also good. I love wearing oversized clothing if you haven’t noticed, and not only is it unbelievably comfy, but it also allows you to keep wearing it as it gets colder by simply layering underneath. There’s so much extra room you can just put on a few sweatshirts underneath! Whatever you wear underneath, I highly suggest wearing more than a bralette underneath it to school. Just a suggestion.

4. 90s Leather Backpack, LyndiLane, $70

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We all need bags to carry our school supplies in, especially us teachers. How many bags to you carry on a daily basis? Me? At least three. To this day, I love backpacks, and this one is super cute. Let me tell you, I’ll be a lot more excited bringing stuff to and from school if I get to do it in a pretty bag. Just make sure you can fit all your stuff in it!

5. 70s Gold Blouse, WearitWellvintage, $40

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As a teacher, I’m constantly on the lookout for clothes that are nice, but not too nice. Does that sound weird? Maybe it is. The thing is, I want to look professional, but I also work with kids everyday so I don’t want it to be too stiff or formal. Also, I like having transitional clothes that I can wear to work or out on a date night with Eric. Trust me, Eric won’t take me on dates if I tell him I need to buy separate clothes just for dates. I think this shirt does a lovely job of covering all the bases. It’s nice, but not too formal. I can rock this at work or on a date. It’s the transitional piece we’re all on the lookout for.

6. Burgundy Skirt, SHOPPOMPOMVINTAGE, $36

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I always tell myself I should try wearing colorful clothes, but then I don’t because it turns out that I like my clothes to match my coal of a heart (it’s a joke people). If there ever was a piece of clothes that could convince me to join team color, it would be this skirt. It’s a nice length (once again passing dress codes and professional codes all around). Also, look at those pockets. We all know if a skirt has pockets it already ten times better than all other skirts.

7. Blue Leather Huaraches, 1919vintage, $44

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Of course, no back-to-school shopping trip is complete without a new pair of shoes. These huaraches have my heart because they seem like such great year-round shoes. Maybe not marching-through-the-snow winter. But I could still change out of my snow boots into these babies once I was safely inside. And let’s face it, these things are beautiful.

 

Ok, there’s my back-to-school Etsy finds that fit into my new sustainable fashion quest. What’s on your back-to-school list? Have any favorite Etsy or other sustainable fashion shops? Let me know!

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Bronzing Sunscreen (And A Story)

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So this weekend, Eric and I took my youngest sister to a water park. Lot’s of fun ensued. We had a blast. And like all good people, who are deeply concerned with skincare, we reapplied sunscreen regularly. Like a lot. Especially to my little sister. There was no way that I was taking her back to my parents with a sunburn.

Luckily, this was no big deal because we had a bunch of sunscreen leftover from our honeymoon in Hawaii (I’m very pale so I stocked up). But all good things come to end. And so mid-way through one of our sunscreen applications, I finished off one of our spray sunscreens on my sister.

As I opened a new bottle and started spraying Eric, I noticed how the finish of the sunscreen looked so different than that of the other stuff. My sister and Eric are both much tanner than I am. I said something along the lines of, “Ooh, Eric, look how smoothly this goes on you. It sprays so evenly!”

Eric looked down in shock and shouted, “What’s in this stuff?”

That’s when I finally looked closer. The smooth finish was because the spray looked tinted, not it’s normal glossy finish. I told Eric to rub the sunscreen in, and after he did, he looked at his hand.

“Eew it’s sparkly,” he said, “and tinted, like makeup.”

I looked down at the bottle of sunscreen in my hand. And at that moment I came face-to-face with a truth that recently kept coming more apparent: I need to read product’s labels more thoroughly. That, or I guess you could argue, that product’s needed to keep their labels more simplistic. Either or really.

What I bought was Pacifica Coconut Probiotic SPF 30 Water Resistant 80 Minute Sunscreen. What I didn’t realize I bought was Sunscreen BRONZER.

I had accidentally covered Eric in bronzer, sunscreen bronzer, but bronzer nonetheless. And for a few seconds he was convinced I did it on purpose.

“Is this makeup?” he asked in disbelief.

“No,” I said, “it’s sunscreen.”

“But it’s bronzer,” he said. “Isn’t there makeup bronzer?”

“Yes, but it’s different,” I said.

I finally convinced him that I didn’t purposely cover him in bronze toned sparkles by reminding him how pale I was and badly bronzer sunscreen would look on my skin.

In the end, the show had to go on, and we had a bunch more rides to go on so I finished applying the bronze sunscreen to Eric and then applied it to myself.

Eric walked around the park sparkling and I walked around with orange legs.

But the most important thing is this: We all had fun, and the sunscreen worked and no one got burned!

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How To Choose Skin Care and Makeup Products That Are Good For You

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Hi guys! I’m really happy to say that recently, Hello Giggles published an essay I wrote called “How Skin Care Unexpectedly Led Me To Self-Care.” This essay is so important to me because not only is it a part of an important larger conversation, but also because it also allowed me to reflect more deeply on my own habits.

Here’s the thing, in the essay, I talk about an allergic reaction I had to makeup (I’ve mentioned it previously on my blog too). Because of the allergic reaction, I realized I needed to be a lot more careful about what I put on my sensitive skin. Pairing my need for caution with my love for beauty, I quickly spiraled into a world of skin care and beauty research, and before long, I realized how gross the ingredients are in some of our skin care and beauty products. Honestly, it was shocking.

Soon after realizing how gross some ingredients were, I started searching for brands who sought to make safe and healthy products (If I don’t want an allergic reaction from my makeup, I can guarantee you that I also don’t want cancer from my makeup). Before long, I started falling in love with new brands. What I wasn’t falling in love with was their price tags.

At this point, I felt caught in the middle. Do I do something that is safe for me and will make me feel good, though it will cost a lot? Or do I do something that will make my wallet feel good, even though it might not make me feel good? If I’m being honest (and I am), usually my choice is to do both and try to find a healthy balance.

My first step in trying to find balance, came in the form of a Beauty Counter consultant. Beauty Counter is a brand that strives to create clean, healthy, good makeup. I’ve tried their stuff, and I like it, but even more helpful is their “The Never List.” This list contains a bunch of ingredients that are commonly included in beauty, skincare, and household products.

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The consultant also introduced me to a great app. EWG’s Skin Deep Cosmetics Database is a lifesaver (possibly literally). You can download it to your phone, scan cosmetic products at the store, and it will give you their health rating, along with a list of the dangerous ingredients included in the product. This app has changed the way I shop for cosmetic products.

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Now here comes the next truth, before I started splurging on makeup, I started splurging on skin care. Why? Because if you ask any makeup artist ever, they’ll tell you that the best thing you can do for your face is start with good skin.

Before I invested in one of my all-time favorite moisturizers, I tried a drugstore brand. I even did my research first. It was my first time using a moisturizer, but I didn’t feel like it was doing much for me so after a while I decided to step up my game. And oh boy, when I did, it made all the difference. My moisturizer convinced me that sometimes you do get what you pay for and so I started trying different cleansers and serums, usually testing samples before buying the full size.

So where am I at now? I have a mix of brands. Some higher end, with higher price tags, and some are easy to find and easy on the wallet drugstore brands. BUT, regardless of their price or brand, they’re all good for me.

What’s my advice for finding skincare and makeup products that are truly good for you?

  1. Find products with healthy, safe ingredients. If you’re putting something unsafe ingredients on your skin, then it’s not good for, simple as that.
  2. Shop around and test out products before you commit to them. You don’t need to ever invest in an expensive product without testing it first. Many stores, like Sephora, offer samples. Make sure you love the product before you buy it full sized.
  3. Make sure the product works well with your skin. It doesn’t matter who recommends you a product, or what ingredients are in it, if the product doesn’t sit well with your skin, then it’s not for you. We all have such different, beautiful faces and skin, and we are all looking for something specific in our makeup and skin care. Just because someone else loves something, it doesn’t mean you have to.

 

So there you have it! Now you know how I came to find makeup and skin care products that worked for me, along with the tips that I have to offer you!

 

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How To Pack For A Beach Vacation

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Guys, I am so excited for my honeymoon. Eric (my fiance) and I are lucky enough to get to disappear to a beach for a week, and we’re both thrilled about it. Pair our excitement with my love of shopping and I knew I needed to write a post all about how to pack for a vacation.

I’m a classic over-packer, and I have no doubt that when we go on our honeymoon, Eric will be short room in the suitcase. I’m sure he’ll be gracious about it, because he always is. Without further ado, here are beach vacation necessities.

1. Swimwear and Sunshine

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The best part of any beach vacation is the sunshine and the water, which means you obviously need to come prepared for both. I know I’ll be spending plenty of time at the beach and in the water. That means at least one go-to swimsuit (I’m sure I’ll have at least three), a pair of comfy sand-worthy sandals, a nice big tote (this Kate Spade one is actually a cooler bag!), and a cover-up that’s appropriate for any beach party. I know I’m going to be prepared to hang out in my swimsuit all day long (woo woo).

 Stella McCartney and Adidas Bikini Top ($33)

 Stella McCartney and Adidas Bikini Bottom ($25)

Adidas Cloudfoam Flip Flop ($25)

Kate Spade Break The Ice Cooler Bag ($37)

LA BLANCA Cover-Up Tunic ($69)

 

2. Date Night Ready

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We all know the best part of every vacation is all of the relaxation time you get, and that means you can go on dates whenever you want. Eric currently works second-shift which makes week night dates almost impossible. Our honeymoon will finally give us a chance to hangout and go out whenever we feel like. You can bet on the fact that I’ll have a (or like 10) cute dress ready for our dates. To go with the dresses, pack a pair of neutral colored wedges. Top off the look with a straw hat so you can protect your skin just in case you want to walk around. Then, complete the look with a brightly colored purse and earrings (these BaubleBar ones are to die for). Then, since you’ll be rocking a natural glow from soaking up all that sun, just finish off your look with Fresh’s Sugar Lip Treatment in as daring as a shade as you’d like (it even has sunscreen in it!).

Xhilaration Lace Shift Dress ($25)

Mossimo Wedge Sandals ($23)

J. Crew Summer Straw Hat ($35)

H&M Shoulder Bag ($30)

BaubleBar Drop Earrings ($48)

Fresh Sugar Lip Treatment ($24)

 

3. Comfortable and Cozy

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As much as I like dressing up, there is nothing I like more than hanging around in comfortable clothes. When I go on vacation, I want to be wearing clothes that I can get up and do just about anything in. I don’t want to be worried about ruining my cutest outfits. This means, that my vacation wardrobe definitely includes quite a few “comfy” clothes. What do I mean by comfy? Well, for one, T shirts. T shirts are super transitional so it’s good to always have a few on hand. And of course, jean shorts. They’re the perfect summer companion (aka beach companion), just ask Chrissy Teigen. My other suggestion is to also pack an easy pull-on sneaker of some kind. Most likely if you’re vacationing in a beach-type situation that means the weather is nice and you’ll be doing lots of walking, which is great, but you want to make sure your feet are ready. Along with my body’s temperature swings, I want to be prepared for the temperature swings during my beach vacation. You can guarantee that morning and evening hours are a lot cooler than the afternoon hours, and don’t forget about those rain days. So, I suggest packing a sweatshirt or cardigan too. Lastly, grab a pair of sunglasses. Protect those pretty eyes and prevent those headaches.

BDG Charlie Dolman Cardigan ($59)

Capri Translucent Sunglasses ($20)

BP V-Neck Tee Shirt ($17)

Mossimo Canvas Sneaker ($15)

Black Denim Cut Off Shorts ($78)

 

OK y’all, so these are my for-sure beach vacation packing items. This girl is pale! I’ve got to cover up and protect my skin, but I always want to soak in those sun rays too (safely of course). What do you HAVE to bring with you on vacation? Let me know!

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3 Hair Products That Changed My Life

Beauty

Hey all, a lot of people seemed to really enjoy my makeup post so today I decided to write about three hair products that have seriously changed my life.

I have curly hair, but not that cute curly hair that some people have. No, I have annoying curls with at least three different curl patterns. My top layer of hair is wavy at best. Then, underneath, I have a mixture of spiral curls and zig-zag curls (forget the technical terms).

For years, I dealt with frizzy, uncontrollable hair. As I got older, some of my hair problems worked themselves out, but I still wasn’t comfortable wearing my hair down naturally, and it takes forever to straighten or “curl.” Finally, in college, I realized lots of girls wore their natural hair down and it looked great regardless of the texture. So I started doing my research.

1. Bumble and Bumbles Hairdresser’s Invisible Oil

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The first thing I was introduced to was Bumble and Bumbles Hairdresser’s Invisible Oil. I first learned about this product through one of my favorite writer’s blog. Admittedly, it’s expensive and I originally had a hard to purchasing it, but I realized it was an investment and I took the plunge. Let me tell you, it was worth it! It’s lasted me years (I’m still on my first bottle of it), it smells great, and it works great at decreasing frizz and increasing shine. If you’re not ready to take the plunge, there are lots of other affordable options as well. I also use Garnier’s Triple Nutrition Marvelous Oil.

 

2. OGX’s Coconut Curls Shampoo and Conditioner

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After I did some reading, I realized that some ingredients were better for my hair and some were worse. I started reading up on shampoos that were recommended for my hair, and I happened across OGX’s Quenching Coconut Curls Shampoo and Conditioner. Coming from a family with a ton of girls, paying $7.99 for a small bottle of shampoo seemed pretty steep, but I realized that it works great and by myself, it actually lasts for awhile. It also made brushing my hair so much easier and my curls came through so well after I used it.

 

3. Not Your Mother’s Naturals Tahitian Gardenia Flower & Mango Butter Curl Defining Combing Cream

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So my mom brought this product home for my little sister. She has rocking curls, but needs products for them too. I also happen to love mango so when I saw that on the bottle, I knew I had to try it out. And I did, and I loved it. Not Your Mother’s Naturals Tahitian Gardenia Flower and Mango Butter comes in at a smooth $8.99 and it’s worth every penny. Oh my gosh, my curls looked so great the first time that I used this that I went out and bought my own bottle of it.

Ok, so these are three hair products that changed my life and made me love my natural curls. After using these products, my hair looks pretty down. I don’t worry about frizz or weird multi-level curls. Got any go-to hair products? Any suggestions? Let me know!

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5 THINGS TO THINK ABOUT RIGHT BEFORE YOUR WEDDING

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It’s crazy to think that in less than 30 days, my engagement will be over. I’m so excited to marry my fiance Eric, but it’s strange to think that after a year and a half, this stage in our lives will be over.

I’m a planner and I love organizing things so wedding planning is right up my alley. I jumped into it with a lot of enthusiasm and we quickly were ahead of the wedding planning game. Just a couple of months ago, Eric and I hardly had anything to do as far as wedding stuff goes, but now that we’re officially less than 30 days out, that all has changed. Now we have all of these nitty-gritty little details left to accomplish, things that I happily didn’t worry about before.

So as Eric and I finish out these final days of our engagement, I thought it most appropriate to round-up five of the most important things to do right before marriage.

1. Collect all those missing RSVPs.

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Picking out my wedding stationary was one of my favorite parts of wedding planning. I now truly get the appeal of stationary in ways that I never did before. One of my least favorite parts of wedding planning is chasing down missing RSVPs. However, no matter how much I dislike it, it is a necessary part of the wedding process. You don’t want unaccounted for guests showing up at your wedding with no seats or no food. Technology makes it so easy today to reach out personally and gather up those final numbers.

2. Don’t Forget to Pick Out Your Music

Unfortunately, because of some communication issues, Eric and I had to find a new ceremony musician and reception DJ just in the last couple weeks. The last-minute change had me stressing, but I knew ultimately it was the right move because we needed to get going on music selections. Now Eric and I are spending countless hours trying to figure out what we want the processional song to be. We already have the bridal song and the recessional song chosen and we’re pretty happy about that!

3. Make a Wedding Day Timeline

You always hear all of these horror stories of brides showing up to their weddings an hour late. I don’t know about you, but I would not like waiting an extra hour as a guest, and I especially don’t intend to make my guests wait. Making a Day-of-Timeline is something I still need to do. In order to do so, I need to first talk to my photographer so I know what time she’ll be taking what photos. Then, I’ll talk to my beauty people and make sure they have the time they need. After that, it’ll be up to me to make sure everything gets where it needs to be and everyone shows up on time.

4. Make the Dreaded Seating Chart

One of the best things I did for my wedding was hire a calligrapher, Jenna at La Cartita. She is a creative genius and everything she makes is gorgeous. I cannot recommend her enough. So much of her work will appear at my wedding, and I commissioned her to make a mother’s day gift for my soon-to-be mother-in-law. Anyway, some of the things Jenna made for me were agate escort cards. I’m in love with them, but I still need to make a seating chart to go with them. It seems today that lots of people try to skip seating charts, but if you’ve ever been to a big event without one, you know things end up a mess. Making a seating chart is totally uncomfortable. You don’t want to offend anyone and you want to make everyone as comfortable as possible, and yet you know both those things are probably impossible to accomplish. But try anyway. It will actually make everything better in the long run.

5. Get Those Thank Yous and Tips Ready

I’m not even talking about the thank yous to all your loved ones (who most certainly deserve and should receive a thank you as well). I’m talking about thank yous and tips for all the people and teams who made your day the amazing thing that it was. People say that nobody cares about your wedding as much as you do, and that’s true but if you hire truly amazing people to help, they will do a magnificent job of making your day a truly memorable experience. And everyone deserves a thank you for that. I know my vendors sure do. They answer countless calls, are extra accommodating, and their flexibility is life-giving. It’s important to have those thank yous and tips ready to go so it’s one less thing to forget when it comes to your big day.

 

Ok, well that rounds up my list of 5 things to do before your wedding (and my first official post)!

 

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