We’re Jumping Into March Around Here

Beauty, Home, Lifestyle

Wow, sorry I ducked out for a few months there. I was really embracing the whole “new year, new me” thing. But it’s not so much about being new – it’s more about being the truest version of myself. And wow, that’s difficult, because guess what? I’m kind of a people pleaser. I really didn’t realize that about myself until recently, because I’m not someone who spends a lot of time worrying about what others think of me.

It wasn’t until I took the Enneagram quiz and found out I was a type 3 with a 2 wing. When I read up about my “type” nothing was shocking (In fact, I felt very grounded in everything I read like, “Oh yeah, that’s definitely me,” but what really stuck with me was the part that said in type 3s’ eyes, sometimes achieving (type 3s are often competitive and value being successful and achieving things) means succeeding at whatever their loved ones’ deem valuable, not what we deem valuable. And honestly, I think that’s been me for most of my life.

The great thing though, is that I do know a lot of things that I love, and now I’m just being sure to more actively pursue those things. I’m lucky that I have a lot of love and support in my life so it’s actually pretty exciting going forward. For instance, I love writing, and I’m going to keep doing just that right here. The crazy thing is that for the last few months I’ve been taking tons of pictures of everything around me for all these blog posts I was mentally planning. They just never made it out of my phone and head and onto an an electronic piece of paper (aka this post). I’m finally getting there so hang in there with me while I get myself caught up, and then let’s hope I can commit to some regularity going forward in 2019!

Another thing I’ve been exploring more? My love of flowers. About a year and a half ago, I started an instagram account for my love of flowers @rosemaryandribbon. I attended a few floral workshops and over the summer I used flowers from my own garden to practice even more. In January, I had the opportunity to have my floral designs in a couple of styled shoots.

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I made that bouquet. Ugh, it’s so pretty, it still gets to me. I’m willing to make flowers for you too! Just reach out to me via dm (on Instagram) or email (via my website). I’m really proud of my progress and I’m extra excited for my garden this summer (also, can’t wait for the spring weather to get here).

Also, I’m still working on my hydration. If you’ve read my blog before, you’ve probably heard me reference how I’m noticeably bad at staying hydrated while at work – to the point where a student commented on it. Well, for Christmas, Eric got me the water bottle of my dreams.

This is my bkr water bottle and I love it (it comes in a variety of sizes, colors, and textures!). It’s what my dream water bottle looks like. It’s glass, which means no weird plastic or metal taste in the water, and I can attach my lip balm on top, which if you know me, you know I have a penchant for skin care. In fact, I actually fell in love with bkr’s lip balm before I even knew they made water bottles.

See, Eric is perfect and in being perfect knows how to give me perfect gifts. For my birthday last year he got me a subscription to Allure’s beauty box (I’ve tried other similar boxes in the past and so far this has been my favorite). One month, bkr lip balm was included as a sample and it got me hooked. So when I used my sample gone, I went online to look for more, and that’s when I discovered that bkr makes water bottles and they can hold the lip balm bkr makes. When I showed Eric in excitement, he downplayed it and sneakily purchased it as a Christmas gift. And the best part is that it has helped me be better about keeping hydrated (both my body and my skin!).

Now students don’t comment on how little water I drink! Instead they comment on how cool my water bottle is!

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What To Do At The Start Of Spring

Home, Lifestyle

We all know the saying – March comes in like a lion and out like a lamb. So far, March is definitely on track to live up to that old adage. While temperatures hit the 50 degree range last week, this week has started off with a winter weather advisory. I’m missing the sun already.

Instead of bemoaning what could be, my husband and I took advantage of the great weather we had this weekend, and we made the best of the warm weather while we had it. So what should you do with your time at the start of spring? Here’s my suggestions:

  • Get Outside – Growing up in the Midwest and being a spring sport athlete all through college taught me to have thick skin, especially when it comes to fickle weather. I’ve played softball while it was snowing, and while that’s never too fun, it does make you appreciate those first days of spring when things are first thawing and you can finally feel the sun on your skin again. Since my husband and I both love the outdoors, we made sure to get outside this weekend, first, on a trip duck watching, and then taking our cute little dog out for an extended playtime.

 

  • Embrace the color green – As the temperatures begin to drop again, I’m remembering that I can look to my little seedlings that I started indoors a couple weeks ago even if the grass outside is still far from green. I also bought more flowers this weekend because they brighten up any space and it’s a nice reminder that nature is near even when the low temperatures keep you from otherwise enjoying it.

 

  • Smile (everything has it’s season) – Sometimes when you get a taste of better weather, it feels especially bitter to have the sunshine disappear. It’s important to remember that there is a time and season for everything, in life and in nature. It’s easy to want to rush through the days to get to what’s ahead, but there are great things happening right where you are right now – even if the weather isn’t the greatest. Gloomy, cold gray days give us the perfect excuse to curl up inside with a warm beverage and catch up with our favorite book. I don’t know about you, but I can always use more time to read. It’s days like today that remind me to be thankful where I’m at each and every single moment. We just have to smile and look for the good in the situation we are currently in.

 

It’s March (That Means It’s Officially Spring)

Home, Lifestyle

It’s officially March, and I’ve been itching for some sunshine. The thought of spring is so near I can hardly stand it. I’m about two seconds away from taking an irrational weekend trip to somewhere with a warm beach.

If you’re worried about me, don’t worry. You don’t need to be. I’ve been channeling my desire for warmer weather and brighter days into my gardening, and oh boy, those little seedlings have been taking off.

Growing up, my mom always had gardens at home. I always got to help her plant the vegetables and flowers, and it became a regular part of my life. After growing up, getting married, and moving away I felt a strong desire to continue gardening, so I started my journey this spring (Okay, it was still winter, but I was dreaming of spring) by visiting a local gardening store and picking up a few seed starter trays and a few packets of seeds.

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My husband and I started that batch of seeds a few weeks ago and out of my jalapenos, sweet peppers, and tomatoes, we’ve started to see a handful of tomato seeds sprout. Then, last weekend, I convinced my husband to drive me around town to a handful of other gardening stores where I picked up some bulbs, seed packets, and a few of those nice greenhouse seed starter kits.

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Holy moly, those greenhouse kits are worth the money you spend on them! Almost all my seeds have already started to sprout in about a week’s time. Now I’m looking at my poor little greenhouse-less seed starting trays and they look so sad in comparison, and so many poor little seeds aren’t getting the love they need.

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I showed our by-chance gardening experiment to my husband last night, and I convinced him it that it would ultimately be wise to go get another greenhouse kit and plant more peppers and tomatoes. He’s the sweetest, and I’m lucky he loves growing things as much as I do because our cozy little apartment has been taken over by my gardening habit. Though, he has asked me on multiple occasions what I plan to do with all the plants once they’re full grown because they surely won’t all fit on our balcony!

While I’m waiting for my little seeds to sprout and grow, I’m filling my love of flowers with with beauties that I can buy and arrange myself. I truly feel like Claude Monet when he said, “I must have flowers, always, and always.” And my husband would agree. He’ll never forget how big our floral budget was for our wedding, but hello, flowers and greenery totally build the atmosphere! Most recently, I truly channeled spring when I picked up some daffodils, tulips, and ranunculus.

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I’m glad it’s March and warmer days are on their way, but I still can’t wait for a nice dose of sunshine! Until then (and if we’re being honest, even then), I will fill my days and windowsills with pretty flowers!